Autoethnography -- involving self-reflection on personal experience, when writing up one's research interpreting those events, while making a connection to cultural meanings and perspectives in society -- is gaining relevance in academia, though this may vary according to the geography. In certain cultures, quantitative research is given precedence over qualitative research. This paper aims to contradict this and to tell qualitative stories from the perspectives of the two authors. One narrative will focus on gender [in]equality and on how the careers of women have been adversely affected by prejudices and tradition aiming to "keep women down". Is it fair to limit space for women in academia, even if with invisible barriers, and thus limit their career choices? In this instance women, and gender inequality, in Angola are focused upon. Thankfully, there has been some change over time, however career choices from that era were adversely affected. Another narrative focuses on how technology and symbolism are an important aid when abroad and when both parties do not speak a common language. In one instance, in China -- in Dalian -- one of the authors decided to side-step the pre-arranged official visit and go on a walk to find out more about the culture. Trying to have a conversation in a shopping mall and in a major international hypermarket chain proved impossible -- no-one spoke English. A pleasant surprise occurred after walking into a tea shop. Tea, as an important part of Chinese culture, was the basis of an interaction mediated by a smartphone translation app. The conversation was on tea quality -- Jasmine tea versus Green tea. The translation app was not perfect but it did operate in two ways -- in print and using audio. The salesperson and customer [author] both spoke into the smartphone and effective translations followed. Thus, over time, change is occurring in society, in very different forms. Society is evolving as technology becomes ubiquitous, and as women conquer ground which is theirs by right. Is there a connection and is technology behind both changes? Deeply held symbols also bring people closer together, in an age where tradition still has a very strong hold. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]