My wife's drinking is way over guidelines but she never loses control. What do you suggest? Drinking can be hard to talk about, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, but trying to subtly change your wife's behaviour without explaining why will likely make her bristleRead more Leading questions; Drinking can be hard to talk about, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, but trying to subtly change your wife's behaviour without explaining why will likely make her bristleRead more Leading questions