A Context of Connection

The context of safety and empathic connection inherent in a well-maintained therapeutic relationship provides the disconfirmation of danger necessary for emotional healing. The process involves a two-way information exchange identical to that between a mother and a toddler who has fallen. In mindfulness meditation, it appears that healing takes place without the presence of a witness, but a closer examination suggests that the mental state achieved by the meditator may actually put the individual in a context of connection with an internalized presence. When the goal is behavior change, a context of connection is a regular and important part of the coaching role of the therapist as the patient traverses the stages of change.