Tennyson's thanatology

The spectre of death, particularly tragic death, can bring much anxiety and grief to the living. Much study of death anxiety and grief reaction has been done with the idea that recovery begins with an understanding of the problem. Rigorous academic studies, like those of Toynbee, Lindemann, and Kübler-Ross, provide such an understanding. Yet another understanding, an empathetic "I know how you feel because I've been there," can also be comforting and healing to a bereaved person. Alfred, Lord Tennyson, in his poem "In Memoriam A.H.H." demonstrates both types of understanding with heartfelt expression that only a great poet can give. A mere reading of his poem conveys the sincerity of his firsthand understanding. Point by point comparison of his poem with the findings of leading psychologists shows the depth of his academic understanding.