Shame and Blame in Couples Therapy.

The article discusses the challenges faced by couples therapists when their own biases and judgments affect their work. The author shares a case study of a couple caught in a pursue-withdraw cycle and the therapist's struggle to navigate their dynamics. The therapist reflects on their own reactions and attempts to create a safe space for the couple to address their issues. The article emphasizes the importance of therapists acknowledging their own limitations and vulnerabilities in order to effectively help their clients. [Extracted from the article]