Queering potentials: Negotiations of gender, parenthood, and family in polyamorous relationships in the Netherlands.

Using a critical feminist perspective, this article provides an ethnographic account of negotiations of gender relations, parenthood, and family in polyamorous relationships in the Netherlands. A conceptual framework is developed and employed to analyze the queering potentials of polyamory by looking at (1) a difference-oriented self, (2) expansion of political community, (3) deconstructions of gender, (4) enduring and unexpected care, and (5) an awareness of existence with people we do not know. Based on a thick description of everyday negotiations, it is argued that the categories of "gender," "parent," and "family" are mainly stretched and diffused rather than fundamentally disrupted. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]