This article examines variations in how what have been commonly labeled traditional normative family boundaries are pushed by various ethnic and gender statuses. Research in family studies literatures has long focused on differences between traditional and non-traditional family forms. With Talcott Parsons' work of the 1950s and the later work of Robert Bales, social scientists conceptualized the family as a unit comprising a married couple, performing duties such as socialization of children, with a traditional division of labor where he worked outside the home and she worked within it. On the other hand, the research literatures also suggest that this model is an extremely limited one. The traditional U.S. family began, largely aided by industrialization, early in the nineteenth century and is a Western invention of the last 150 years, or so. Added to this is the fact that much research has suggested the traditional family form seems never to have described a majority of families in the U.S. Families of lower socioeconomic status could not afford to have only one wage earner in the outside paid labor force, and so the structure of these families adhered to the traditional model much less frequently.