51. HISTRIONIC TRAITS IN THE DYNAMICS OF THE PARENTAL FAMILY.
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Sima-Comaniciu, Andreea, Muntean, Lorena Mihaela, Lukacs, Emese, Nirestean, Aurel, and Boaca, Alex Claudiu
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EMPATHY , *CRITICISM , *ANGER , *ANXIETY , *CONFERENCES & conventions , *HISTRIONIC personality disorder , *PSYCHOLOGY of mothers , *SELF-perception , *ADULTS - Abstract
A good number of adults who have self-esteem problems or suffer from anxiety and depression were raised by histrionic mothers as children. Women with histrionic personality disorder have a low level of empathy. Not only that, but they tend to relate to their children as beings who must obey without question, "objects" to be decorated and displayed to the world. Mothers with histrionic personality disorder are impatient, critical, quick to anger, and tend to occupy all of their child's intimate space. Because they are extremely sensitive to criticism themselves, mothers with histrionic personality disorder cannot accept the idea that they could be wrong. Unable to accept that they are wrong, these mothers fail to develop intellectually and emotionally beyond a certain threshold. They establish absurd rules that their child must follow, a child who - later - will notice with amazement that his mother does not respect the rule. They will treat him with indifference and withdraw his affection as a method of punishing him, scold him often, and constantly check if he follows the rules they set. The criticism will come according to the emotional fluctuations of the mothers but will be motivated otherwise, usually through a much-inflated fault of the child. Adults who have such a childhood littered with drama and criticism from their mothers will have difficulty understanding what happened in the past and why they developed in a certain way. Almost without exception, like adults, they will have frequent anxiety and low self-esteem. Some develop performance anxiety, others obsessive-compulsive personality disorder. In the case of some, their self-esteem is so damaged that they experience episodes of anger. Equally common as a result of such a difficult childhood are borderline, dependent, and avoidant personality disorders. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
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- 2023