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This article presents a qualitative analysis of the experience of parenting of mothers with dissociative disorders. This analysis was performed to complement the quantitative analysis of problems of mothers with dissociative disorders that Benjamin, Benjamin, and Rind (1996) presented previously. They found that the functioning of these mothers, as well as their subjective experience of mothering, was poorer than that of either clinical or nonclinical control mothers. Our goal was to provide a clearer, richer picture of their problems in parenting. Using the mothers' own words, we describe how the five symptom areas of dissociation (amnesia, depersonalization, derealization, identity confusion, and identity alteration) impeded their parenting efforts. We conclude with a discussion of the necessity of addressing parenting in the treatment of client-mothers with dissociative disorders.

This study examined to what extent the symptoms of dissociative mothers interfered with their parenting and their subjective experiences of mothering. A group of 54 dissociative inpatient or day-patient mothers, 20 nondissociative inpatient mothers, and 20 hospital staff mothers were screened for Dissociative Disorders using the Structured Clinical Interview for Dissociative Disorders (SCID-D). They were then asked to fill out a self-report questionnaire on various aspects of mothering. This questionnaire, the Subjective Experiences of Parenting Scale (SEPS), examined 14 parenting characteristics: parenting partner support; relative support; abusiveness towards the child; extent to which symptoms interfered with parenting; constructive parenting traits; supportive versus hurtful discipline; extent of showing affection; ability to express affection; attachment behaviors; cognitive distortions; regulation of anger; self versus mother in parenting; subjective experience of mothering; and actions to promote the developmental growth of the child Dissociatives presented significantly more negative parenting behavior and related attributes than staff controls on 13 of the 14 parenting characteristics. Compared to nondissociative patients, the dissociative cohort presented poorer parenting behavior and related attributes on 9 of the 14 characteristics. Overall, the dissociatives experienced more problems with parenting attitudes and behaviors than either comparison group. Dissociative mothers manifested affective, behavioral, and cognitive difficulties in parenting.