1. Let me count the ways: An integrative theory of love and hate.
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Rempel, John K. and Burris, Christopher T.
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INCONSISTENCY (Logic) , *AFFECT (Psychology) , *FUTURES studies , *LOGIC , *CONTRADICTION , *EMOTIONS - Abstract
We propose an integrative theory of love and hate intended to help resolve problems and inconsistencies that have emerged from previous conceptualizations. We suggest that love is a motive based on the valuing of the other and is associated with the goal of preserving or promoting the other's well-being. Likewise, hate is a motive based on devaluing the other and is associated with the goal of diminishing or destroying the other's well-being. We further suggest that intense, powerful emotions may serve as eliciting experiences for different types of love and hate, and we discuss how benefiting or harming the other can be either an instrumental or an ultimate goal for the various forms of love and hate. Finally, we discuss some ways in which our theory can promote new directions in the future study of love and hate. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
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- 2005
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