Fairness is an important property of computer networks and systems. In a wide range of these systems such as distributed multi-hop wireless networks, multihomed networks, and cloud computing, each user may be allocated a number of system resources; this resembles a many-to-many relationship between the sets of users and resources, which raises the problem of system-wide fair resource allocation. In this paper, we assume that each user/node can be allocated a number of resources, which could be either in its neighborhood or far from it. As a key difference with previous works and through incorporating the concept of “flow”, we model near/far resources allocated to nodes. To attain fair flow control in such systems, first we model this situation by introducing a new multi-server system called multi-ring, in which a server that represents a resource, can serve only a subset of either neighboring or far nodes in the system. Then, we define a centralized optimization problem to attain weighted proportional fairness among all nodes meaning that the sum of allocated capacities from all servers to each node (while considering its flow) is fair. We evaluate fairness properties of multi-ring networks and provide conditions on system parameters under which a system can have a fair resource allocation. Moreover, we present a distributed method to attain fairness in distributed environments, and its stability/convergence is evaluated by non-linear discrete dynamical systems. We present conditions under which the system is stable, and through numerical analysis, we show how to obtain stable system parameters for large systems. The effectiveness of the presented method is studied through extensive numerical evaluation. Results show the success of our method in attaining fairness for various topologies and system parameters, and confirm our stability analysis. A number of systems with fairness issues are also studied as potential applications of our model. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]