1. Becoming Hansel Again: Safety and Hope in Family Stories.
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Thomas, Volker
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FAMILY psychotherapy , *COUPLES counseling , *FAMILY relations , *MARRIAGE , *LIFE , *FAMILY research - Abstract
This article presents the author's personal narrative of his childhood to illustrate how messages and meanings of family stories from the past can be transferred into one's current life and future plans. The author says that as he sits in his university office ready to tell people this story, he looks up over his computer screen and notice three pictures. Each represents something important from his past that makes up a meaningful part of who he is in the present, personally as well as professionally. Straight above the computer, his eye meets a larger collage made of straw and colored cloth. It shows, two frightened children holding each other tight while facing an old woman who leans on a crooked stick and stares at the children wickedly. A pigeon is flying over the house and an owl watches from a nearby tree. In front of the house, a boy and a girl look at the entrance in fearful excitement. Rediscovering the magic of the past can empower people in the present and make them hopeful for the future. Counseling and therapy are wonderful tools and contexts to recreate and translate inner truths of clients in ways that give them more control over their lives.
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- 1996
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