The urea tape α-network of bifurcated N−H···O hydrogen bonds is a common motif in diaryl ureas and their molecular complexes. We analyzed the X-ray crystal structures of N,N'-bis(3-pyridyl)urea 3 and some of its derivatives: hydrates of stoichiometry 3·(4/3)H2O and 3·2H2O, cocrystals 3·SA and 3·FA·H2O with succinic acid and fumaric acid, bis pyridine N-oxide 8, and bis N-methylpyridinium iodide 9. Crystal packing in pyridyl urea structures is directed by N−H···Npyridyl, N−H···Owater, N−H···Oacid, and N−H···I- hydrogen bonds instead of the common one-dimensional N−H···Ourea tape. We postulated that the urea tape is absent in these structures because the CO acceptor is weakened by two intramolecular C−H···Ourea interactions (synthon III) in a planar molecular conformation. Electrostatic surface potential (ESP) charges (DFT-B3LYP/6-31G*) showed that the C−H···O interactions sufficiently reduce the electron density at the urea O, and so other electronegative atoms, such as pyridyl N, H2O, COOH, and I-, become viable hydrogen-bond acceptors for the strong NH donors. 1H NMR difference nOe confirmed that the planar conformation of dipyridyl urea 3 in the solid-state persists in solution. Interestingly, even though the strong hydrogen-bond motifs changed in structures of 3, the C−H···O interactions of synthon III (energy 4.6−5.0 kcal/mol) occurred throughout the family. In addition to dipyridyl urea, other electron-withdrawing diaryl ureas, e.g., those with phenylpyridyl and phenyl-nitrophenyl groups, also deviated from the prototype N−H···O tape because of the interference from weak C−H···O hydrogen bonds. Therefore, when one or both aryl rings have hydrogen-bond acceptor groups (e.g., pyridine, PhNO2), the NH donor(s) preferentially bond to pyridyl N, nitro O, or solvent O atom instead of the urea CO acceptor. We classify supramolecular organization in diaryl ureas into those with the α-network (twisted molecular conformation) or non-urea tape structures (stable, planar conformation) depending on the substituent group. Our results suggest a model to steer urea crystal structures toward the tape synthon (Ph and electron-donating groups) or with non-urea hydrogen-bond motifs and a high probability for urea···solvent hydrogen bonding (electron-withdrawing groups) by appropriate selection of functional aryl and heterocyclic groups. Intramolecular C−H···O interactions in dipyridyl urea stabilize the planar molecular conformation and weaken the CO acceptor strength so that N−H···Npyridyl, N−H···Owater hydrogen bonds are preferred over the one-dimensional N−H···Ourea tape. A model for crystallization in the α-network (phenyl and electron-donating group) or as non-urea tape structures (electron-withdrawing group) depending on the aryl functional group is discussed. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]