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You've told your partner you're sorry, recognised you've made some bad choices and want to put the past behind you. Unfortunately, your attempts to make things better blow up in your face and your partner keeps getting hurt all over again. Alternatively, you don't know what you truly want. One minute you're committed to saving your marriage and the next wondering if it's past saving and tempted to contact your affair partner again. Whatever the circumstances, your discussions about the affair go round in circles or keep coming back to the same questions that either you can't answer or your partner considers your responses inadequate. Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with over thirty years'experience helping couples recover from infidelity and in this compassionate book, he will help you: — Find clarity for once and for all. — Stop getting overwhelmed by the pain and communicate more effectively. — Avoid the traps which suck the hope out of your recovery. — Find the answers to important questions from your partner. — Tackle both the immediate crisis and the underlying problems that caused it. — Break the cycle that's hurting you both. — Work together as a team to find a way forward. If you're the injured party and can't get your head round how your partner could have been unfaithful, this book will help you too. By putting it into your partner's hands, you'll open his or her eyes to why he or she keeps making matters worse. Just as importantly, you'll get an insight into what's going on inside his or her mind.

Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist and author of eighteen books on turning around relationships. He has taken his thirty-years'experience and boiled everything he has learnt from three thousand clients into this short book to help you start over. Whether you want to improve what's already good or feel you are your partner are dangerously out of touch, there are tools to diagnose the real issues between you and plenty of practical advice. If your partner is in despair of your relationship ever improving or has fallen out of love, this book has been created to help you recruit him or her to try again. Can We Start Over Please? explains: •Why people fall out of love •How to get back the sexual spark •The five love languages and how to learn to speak your partner's •Twenty questions to get back that'just met'buzz •The seven most powerful interventions to improve communication

If your relationship with your significant other is defined more by companionship than passion... if you love each other deeply but are not deeply in love... if you feel that something's missing or is no longer there... then you could be experiencing ILYB (I Love You, But...). In'I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You'couple's counsellor Andrew G. Marshall draws on twenty years of experience to help couples who have'fallen out of love'or want to rekindle the love that once was to learn how to use Marshall's program with impressive results.

When a husband tells his wife, or she suspects, that he no longer ioves her she may feel as though her world is ending but in this positive and powerful book, marital therapist Andrew G. Marshall has a message of hope. It is possible to turn a relationship around and emerge with a stronger bond. In Part One, he explains:How to get to the bottom of why he's fallen out of love.What's really going through his mind.Why your husband has turned into a stranger.The signs that show if he's depressed and what to do about it.How to build better communication and start improving your relationship.In Part Two, he discusses how to tell if there's another woman and gauge whether she really is a threat, including:The six types of other woman, from'a spark'to'the love of his life'.Tailored strategies for dealing with each type.Five worst and best reactions after uncovering what's really going on.How to keep calm even when provoked.How to combat the poison that she's slipping into your relationship.When to keep fighting and when to make a tactical withdrawal

Men aren't trained to take the temperature on their marriages and check if it's in good health. They tend to leave that up to their wives, so it can come as a huge shock when she tells him'I don't love you anymore.'OK, he sort of knew she hadn't been happy but thought that if he kept his head down it would blow over. However, she's not saying'there's a problem we need to fix'but that'it's over and we need to tell the kids and split up.'Suddenly, the bottom has dropped out of his world. He doesn't know where to turn, how to make sense of what she's saying and worse still how to start fixing the problem. His friends will offer a drink to cheer him up but no practical advice and media aimed at men is full of sport, politics and business. He's in a spin, begging for another chance and telling her'I still love you'just makes her colder and even more angry. Fortunately, internationally renowned marriage counselor Andrew G. Marshall has written My Wife Doesn't Love Me Anymore, to explain how to get your wife to fall in love with you all over again and rebuild a relationship that's more loving and fulfilling than ever. Offering techniques, strategies, and practical advice gleaned from more than thirty years of helping men manage their shock and navigate their way toward a relationship that their wife is crying out for, Marshall explains: How to figure out why she's fallen out of love Five things you think will save your relationship but should absolutely avoid What her words and actions really mean and how to use them to win her back What to do to instantly improve the atmosphere at home How to prevent past mistakes from undermining your attempts to build a better future Five pick me up tips when you're down and need to keep focused When it's time to admit it's over and what factors indicate you should still fight the good fight Whether she's told you'I don't want to work it out','my feelings won't change', or the heart wrenching'I'm attracted to someone else', this book can help you turn it all around and provide scripts to make her open her heart again.

Die Liebe ist ein seltsames SpielWas tun, wenn das prickelnde Gefühl der Verliebtheit verschwunden ist?Die Schmetterlinge im Bauch verflogen sind und »nur noch« Liebe herrscht? So gewinnen Sie die Leidenschaft zurück: ein Programm in 7 Schritten, das Paaren hilft, Sicherheit, Intimität und Vertrauen zurüchzugewinnen. Kann man sich wieder in seinen Partner verlieben? Marshalls antwort ist ein überzeugendes Ja.

No more excuses for a sexless relationship. Here's a program that finally gets to the root of a silent epidemic.Andrew G. Marshall, Great Britain's premier relationship expert and author, brings to the States his research-based program for ending obligatory'going through the motions'sex.In Have the Sex You Want, Marshall moves away from the symptoms and causes of low-sex and sexless relationships, and digs immediately into offering the cure—a 10-week program that strips lovemaking down to its basics and eliminates bad habits that are driving couples apart. Couples relearn how to turn each other on, set their fantasies free, and introduce new ideas that will turn their lovemaking into an erotic, passionate, connected experience.At the heart of Marshall's program is establishing safe communication and trust without feeling fear, shame, or resentment.Marshall's secret to engaging in fulfilling and plentiful sex, is to avoid it completely—a paradox that has proven time and time again to work.From the beginning of the program, couples engage in A Month of Sensuality—four weeks of understanding their own erogenous zones, discovering their partner's body, and introducing sensual touching and kissing. This back-to-basics approach, which put sex off limits, takes the pressure off, does wonders for libido, teaches couples how to slow down and be present and check-in with each other about their pleasure, and urges them to schedule intimate time—time that is usually hijacked by hectic schedules, demanding children, and household and career duties.After they have completed A Month of Sensuality, couples graduate through two more phases that lead them to learn about different types of fantasy, orgasm, masturbation, and communication regarding what they want and need to not only have the sex they want, but the sex they always imagined they'd have.Andrew Marshall's progressive methods to bring a couple back together physically, sexually, and emotionally are practical and pleasurable and guaranteed to give you what you and your partner deserve—an active, erotic, transformative sexual relationship.

Andrew Marshall spent almost thirty years helping couples resolve arguments and fall back in love again. In his first book, I Love You But I'm Not In Love with You, he shed light on a universal relationship problem: What happens when lust turns lukewarm. In I Love You But You Always Put Me Last, Marshall addresses one of the most fundamental relationship issues that fuels so much frustration and discord: letting your children ruin your marriage. Here, he shines a light on how easy it is to lose sight of being husband and wife once they become mommy and daddy, and how that breeds not only unhappy parents but fractious and desperate kids, because kids thrive when parents are in harmony and tackle problems as a team. Marshall's unique 10-Step plan will help couples rekindle the fire in their relationship by learning to restore the proper balance of shared priorities to keep the respect, fun and passion alive – even when baby makes 3…or 4…or 5.

Your wife has not only fallen out of love but, worse still, she is refusing point blank to try and fix things. She says'she can't change her feelings', she needs'space'and the children should know - even though it will break their hearts. You've told her how much you love her, you've begged for a second chance but everything is falling on deaf ears. The situation might seem bleak but help is at hand. Marital therapist, Andrew G Marshall has spent over twenty-five years helping couples find love again and he has a message of HOPE. You can help your wife to fall back in love, even if you're separated or suspect there's another man in the background. In this practical book, he explains: •The six worst and the six best reactions to discovering your wife doesn't love you any more.•How to get to the bottom of why she's fallen out of love.•Five things you think will save your marriage but are just pushing your wife further away.•Five strategies to instantly improve the atmosphere at home.•How to keep going in the face of disinterest and rejection.•Why most men give up too soon.•How to know when to accept the inevitable and when to keep trying.

One in four people have heard it or have said it.... Now discover what it really means. If the relationship you have with your significant other is defined more by companionship than passion... if you love each other deeply but are not deeply in love... if you feel that something's missing or is no longer there... then you could be experiencing ILYB (I Love You, But...). In I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You --a real-life relationship guide from couples'counselor Andrew G. Marshall--partners and individuals who have “fallen out of love” or want to rekindle the love that once was will learn how to use Marshall's program with impressive results. This is a much-needed book to help men and women of all ages in any type of committed romantic relationship to truly understand love and to point out the everyday habits that undermine growing together. Marshall's research is one of the few that delves into what causes relationships to “cool” or for emotions to be “dulled.” So much more than a quick-fix guide, I Love You, but I'm Not In Love with You empowers couples to emerge with a better understanding of themselves and each other, and ultimately build a stronger, more passionate bond. Learn how to: • Argue productively and address the core of the issue • Employ the trigger words for more effective communication • Find a balance between being fulfilled as an individual and being one half of a couple • Discover if the ILYB is simply a symptom of a workable problem • Take your sex life to a deeper level of intimacy • Create new bonds instead of searching for the old ones